Tuesday, 21 January 2014
I am a Women
I am a Women: Thank you everyone for reading my first blog and the comments were too valuable which insisted me to keep writing :) I am a Women, Yes an...
I am a Women
Thank you everyone for reading my first blog and the comments were too valuable which insisted me to keep writing :)
I am a Women, Yes and I am too proud of it too. I have attitude, intelligence and beauty inherited from my MOM and my DAD. And yes, if that is not all, I have my own self esteem and self respect which I can never compromise with. All these words seem to be too loud and vague but they are TRUE. I am born and brought up with same or extra care as all boys are. But, why do you forget it when we enter your house leaving our nest after 25 yrs. You want kids or rather we want kids but more specifically your family wants a baby boy. We work as we have gained same qualification and sitting at home is not considered such a good option.We nurse kids and bring them up with all emotions and strong head but when anything goes wrong, we are the ones to be blamed. I ask, WHY ? You never had a role in his/her upbringing or was it only us who played this role, if yes, then you have no right blaming us. I personally feel, a women can never be wrong.She thinks from HEART. India has grown in various ways but the mentality on Boys and girls empowerment still remains a question to be answered. Today, when we hear of a RAPE, the first question arises, WHAT TIME, WHICH PLACE, CIRCUMSTANCES and after all the diggings and investigation, WHAT the hell was she doing there ? I ask, it is moral rights gained by guys to roam anywhere and anyhow and women to just sit at home and obey your rules.
Till today, I feel so sad on the DEC'16 2012 DELHI GANG RAPE case victim. I can't even dare to think of all she went through that very horrible night and days after the incident. May god rest her soul in peace. If something needs a change, it is our mentality on women. We, new generation must make it a point to em-bide all right values and right thinking in our Boys. It is not such a difficult task and it only evolves from childhood.
This blog is no Offense to all MEN, it is just a feeling of writer on today's Situation and for all MEN who think ALIKE.
I am a Women, Yes and I am too proud of it too. I have attitude, intelligence and beauty inherited from my MOM and my DAD. And yes, if that is not all, I have my own self esteem and self respect which I can never compromise with. All these words seem to be too loud and vague but they are TRUE. I am born and brought up with same or extra care as all boys are. But, why do you forget it when we enter your house leaving our nest after 25 yrs. You want kids or rather we want kids but more specifically your family wants a baby boy. We work as we have gained same qualification and sitting at home is not considered such a good option.We nurse kids and bring them up with all emotions and strong head but when anything goes wrong, we are the ones to be blamed. I ask, WHY ? You never had a role in his/her upbringing or was it only us who played this role, if yes, then you have no right blaming us. I personally feel, a women can never be wrong.She thinks from HEART. India has grown in various ways but the mentality on Boys and girls empowerment still remains a question to be answered. Today, when we hear of a RAPE, the first question arises, WHAT TIME, WHICH PLACE, CIRCUMSTANCES and after all the diggings and investigation, WHAT the hell was she doing there ? I ask, it is moral rights gained by guys to roam anywhere and anyhow and women to just sit at home and obey your rules.
Till today, I feel so sad on the DEC'16 2012 DELHI GANG RAPE case victim. I can't even dare to think of all she went through that very horrible night and days after the incident. May god rest her soul in peace. If something needs a change, it is our mentality on women. We, new generation must make it a point to em-bide all right values and right thinking in our Boys. It is not such a difficult task and it only evolves from childhood.
This blog is no Offense to all MEN, it is just a feeling of writer on today's Situation and for all MEN who think ALIKE.
Wednesday, 1 January 2014
PIZZA Resolution 2014
Another new year arrived and it's 2014 !!! I often wondered since childhood, why is so much hush hush on the new year eve. For me, it is like just another day of a new month on a new Calendar. And for all this new day, new month, and new year, we swore make new resolutions. And here is my Hubby's New Year Resolution for 2014.
Time was around 4:00 PM, 1st Jan'14, me and hubby enjoying evening cup of tea along with some snacks.
HUBBY (stuffing his mouth with handful of "All-in-One Haldiram" Mixture) : I have decided my resolution for this year, ( Me wondering what is about to come from his mouth ;)), I am gonna reduce my weight and avoid all oily and fried FOOD items(very specific on Food).
ME : Oh really (feeling strange as he is currently stuffing his mouth with the mixture which will increase 100 C right away). And what about the mixture you are eating now to reduce your weight (Quiet sarcastically).
HUBBY : Yeah, just for today. From tomorrow onwards, I have decided, I will not have anything oily and fried except Paranthas (which my MIL prepares with too high Calories, paranthas made of Ghee, dipped in Ghee and then a BIG Bowl of Home made Butter to make them more delicious) and PIZZA only from "PIZZA HUT" (very specific).
I was so happy that he didn't decide to cut off on PIZZA as we both love PIZZA and going out for a ride, shopping or any work means PIZZA treat :)
MIL enters and I almost froze. Hubby's Mama and Mami arrives home and we decide to go for a walk to keep up the new resolution to be more effective.
The discussion left in middle about the pizza starting again and I teased him for his new resolution and he kept his wide smile prominent on his face (I had always loved this). So, the discussion went further ....
Me : What if you have a party in office and they order DOMINO'S Pizza ? Will you have it or not ?
HUBBY (too confident) : I always order PIZZA HUT one.
Me : Oh really, what if majority wants to go with DOMINO's ?
HUBBY : Hahaha, you are such a disaster, what is there to think about, free mai hai to chaleyga ;)
And we both starting jogging on NH-7.....
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