Five Days of this life worth living

You must be wondering by the title of my new blog what do I really have in my mind which is trying hard to leap out. Yes, the five wonder days of my life which I have lived with my little one and still want to continue more. Lucky now turning 3 next month admitted in Nursery +Kidzee :) Not only we being parents were excited but more excited was my little one who was all set to go on joy ride, little did he know that the journey of exploring his journey on his own has just started. Weekends were spend in shopping for his school accessories. Frequent visit to near by Big Market were too tiring and convincing my grown up boy over the kind of water bottle, lunch box,school bag was a tough task. Lucky being a great fan of Doremon, only wanted his favorite characters to accompany him to school. Then the question arose of what to give him in breakfast so that he doesn't throw more of tantrums in school while eating.All well set and few teaching at home like - "Lucky, what is your name", and soon the sweet reply "Ardhy" , "What is your Mother name" , Confused lucky :(, "Oh Sorry, What is your Mumma's name" , sweet reply " Shweta" , continued with Papa's name, grandma , grandpa name followed. School started at 9:30 and I was running in the whole house making him ready to school, making his breakfast since 8:00AM on 9th June'14.

Yeah, 9th June'14 : I will never forget when you started schooling Lucky :)

First day was fun as I was with him in school and he had the secure environment and didn't bother much about anything in this world.
Second Day : I tried to leave him alone for some time to see if he can come out of his shell and motherly warmth. Those 10 mins of my life was breath taking. He was running madly in whole school searching for me and crying continuously. Almost into tears I ran to him and took him in my arms and loved him deeply.
Third Day : On instructions from Hubby I decided to keep an eye on him from far away, but this was again a failure as the teachers took everyone in a room and locked the room and started throwing bolls in air for kids to get amused and stop crying but this was the worst case scenario and I saw almost 50% of kids were crying because they felt caged.  I couldn't bear the sight and took him again with him.
Fourth Day : Day's were passing and everyone around me was giving me advise to stop caring much and leave him in school alone to make him learn the hard way. So, under influence of mind, though my heart was still thinking in reverse direction, I left him in school alone and was keeping an eye from the terrace of house next to school. Lucky cried for more then 2 hours continuously running all around the school telling teacher's and care takers -  "Shweta pass jana hai, Shweta pass jana hai", " Mujhey vomit ho rehi hai". " I am getting stomach ache" and all this continued but I decided to be stone hearted. During Lunch break when I was still hiding from him, I saw him sitting in school for lunch and feeding his mouth by himself with eyes wet. I can't explain how I felt the very moment. I really wanted to die, as I felt him feeling like an orphan. This brought down all the memories of my childhood of my Father being the strong emotionally then my mom and dropping us to school when I would cry so badly. But, Lucky had learnt it by now, I saw him playing by himself that very day. When I went to him after 15 mins, he came running with his arms open and big smile on his face. It was the true happiness :)
Fifth Day : I left if in school, he cried for 5 - 10 mins and then was all set by him self.

Today, on another monday, I am in office writing this blog, crying my heart out and feeling the task successfully accomplished feeling !!!

shweta : Softie are u

shweta : Softie are u: Sitting in office on chair like someone has glued you with it for 10 hours ,continuous stare at the Mail box  , Air Conditioner working...

Softie are u

Sitting in office on chair like someone has glued you with it for 10 hours ,continuous stare at the Mail box  , Air Conditioner working hard to suck the heat out of 200 Human brains to recycle the thought process is the life of a Software Engineer. Few breaks to washrooms, rest rooms, Pantry and a huge crowd gathering in cafeteria's to beat the not so profound hunger with army of men serving you sandwiches, Burgers, Chips, Pizzas, Pastries and all that you can image to take you out of your depressing state. Women's continuous chats over what is right and what is not, to make you healthier while hogging over the plate of bhel puri chat. Men standing outside Office area in Smoking zone with puffs in air discussing different phases of life.
Back to work with continuous gaze to Laptops, fingers working in sync as if typing the love letter to their beloved. Pin drop silence with hooting of shoes in background with entry of people at desk area every now and then.  We drive to work for almost an hour or more and get sitting in office for so long, then driving back again to give rest to our burning ashes out of pain. You reach home, and family is waiting for you with wide smile on there faces as if to start the day afresh. But it is the end of the day for a Software Engineer who is supposed to be paid high for their high living standards and live a luxurious life.
 Here we are increasing the economy of foreign land with no contribution to our own Bharat Mata who will with whole heart confined us within itself once the Death Bed is ready. I always wondered, did I really wanted to be a software engineer ? Is this the life I ever dreamed of ? A Hotel Management course would have give me more self satisfaction and the real zeal of life then this. I was always this girl next door who wanted to settle down, have family, raise kid with values and see them grow :) They say, Life is what you make it and I am on the wheel !!!

Dedicated to all my Softie Friends :)

shweta : Holi v/s sweetness

shweta : Holi v/s sweetness:                                                   Jolie, Molly, Tolly, bura na mano aagayi Holi. The festival of colors which brings along...

Holi v/s sweetness

                                                  Jolie, Molly, Tolly, bura na mano aagayi Holi.
The festival of colors which brings along unity and happiness. Been a huge fan of this fest, colors and sweets are the ones I have been waiting for 365 days. One such festival where all age group tend to behave childish, kiddish and out of there senses. This years Holi was not such a hit as I was slogging in office but I made that little time out on sunday to play colorful with my son. Until you have a kid at home, you will never realize the fun of holi when you take responsibility of making sweets for kids, playing with them, and encouraging the little ones to take a step further and hit the others with Balloons filled with colorful water. I know, the chemicals in holi colors are harmful but still this one day we can take chance ;)

Journey Begins ----------->
The fine memory of my childhood where I have seen parents playing holi with friends. Men throwing water, mud, colors over Ladies, throwing them in pool of water and when they are done, its ladies turn to make korda out of there dupatt's and then start hitting Men for the mischief. It was fun watching the play every holi, and feels bad when your dad gets a hit from any lady in group.But, as they say --> Bura na mano holi hai :) I remember playing holi with my childhood friend -> Dimpi (Sumita sharma) where we both will sit under handpump, turn wise, we will shed water on each other. As I grew, I started developing allergy with the chemicals and with instructions from Dad, was not allowed to play Holi. But, the day I entered College, there was this big change, he never stopped me and in those 4 years of my Engineering, I have played to my best. Every Holi, my college friends will visit my house, we played holi on roof-top, danced to our best and had Holi sweets and North indian Lunch. Gosh, I just can't forget the fun. And when I got married, I had gala time with my Dewars Adi and Ashu on my First holi after Marriage :) And this years(2014) holi, was fun playing with lucky. For the first time, I prepared Sweets on my own and want to share the recipe with who so ever is interested.

Ghujiya
Besan Lad0o  

Receipe :

Quanity : 25-30 Ghujiya's and 20-30 Besan Ladoo's

Ingredients :
2 medium size bowl of Semolina ( Sooji)
200 gm Khoya/khoa
half medium size bowl of crushed Dried Coconut
10-15 Raisins (Kismis)
one teaspoonful sweet fenel (Sonf)
All-purpose flour ( Maida)
1 bowl of Gram flour (Besan)
Granulated sugar

Machine : Ghujiya Mould

Sooji Mixture :
1. Pour ghee in fry pan and roast Sooji in ghee untill it turns golden brown.Add Khoa to the Sooji mix.Turn of the flame, once Sooji is mixed with khoa and add crushed dried coconut, kismis, sweet sonf, to the mixture.
2. Keep the mixture aside for cooling.
3. Take granulated sugar, we call it bura in Hindi/Haryanvi. It is fine powder of Sugar. Add it to Sooji mixture once its completely cooled.Mix the complete mixture properly.

Gujiya Preparation :
1. Make Maida dough by adding 1 teaspoon full of refined oil and with water.
2. Make small puris out of dough balls.
3. Put the puris on Ghujiya mould and in hollow portion, add the sooji mixture
4. Apply little water on the edges and close mould and press firmly. Remove the extra dough out of mould.
5. Repeat this for making more number of gujiyas.
6. Deep fry them in refnied oil over low flame.

Your mouth-watering Gujiya is ready :)

Besan Ladoo Preparation :
1. Use the same Sooji mixture for making besan ladoo's.
2. Pour ghee in fry pan, roast besan untill it turns golden brown. Add this mixture to the sooji mixture, and add sugar mixture more we have added besan to the sooji mixture.
3. Make besan ladoos out of the mixture.

So, Simple :)

I hope you liked it and it was simple following it. Do try this at home and like the post for expert advice :)


Some pics of Lucky of this holi ---->

Mother with worries

A week has past and I am busy monitoring my kid for the allergic reactions which are turning him into a cranky and itchy boy. This all started in October 2013 when suddenly one fine morning, lucky starting sneezing frequently. To avoid sneezing take a toll on his health, Me and my MIL immediately took lucky to a near by pediatrician who consulted him and gave few cold syrups and Meftal-p for fever. As new parents and not so experienced in field of medicines, generally parents tend to believe each and everything of doc's advise without thinking about the affects of these allopathy treatments on kids. As per doc's suggestion, we gave 4ml of Meftal-P to Lucky around 9:00PM in evening and made him go to bed. It was mid-night that, he started itching over his ears badly and me and hubby were continuously rubbing  his ears and body to make him sleep in comfort and by this time we had no idea what is happening to him. Suddenly Hubby switched on lights to have some water and in those few seconds I saw, my sons ear were swollen to heck like an elephant ear and his forehead was out of its normal size and his face was completely swollen. Allergy reactions were increasing drastically over his body and on advise of in-laws, we were applying oil on his ear but which had zero affect. Around 3 in morning, we finally decided to take rush to hospital. We were admitted immediately and lucky was injected with high dose of drugs. It took 7 days for him to recover completely. This allergy occurred every time he developed fever and we took him to same doc who treated him for allergy. But, now this was getting out of my hands and I can no longer see my son suffer this way, so we decided to change the doc and get him treated the best. We went to Columbia Asia for his treatment and two consecutive visit to the hospital reveled, the allergic reaction is due to fever and it would rise as fever rises and will go once fever goes. So, today on 6th day, lucky is in good shape without any medicines and treatment and any drugs. Its advisable to consult more then one doc in case of serious reoccurring illness.

Today is fine and playing with his all time favorite Doremon :)

Doc's Advise for Parents/Future Parent :
Meftal -P :  --> Give this medicine to your kid only if he has fever above 102 degree C. Untill his body temp rises to 102, it is better to give him sponge bath with luke warm water over hands and leg (Not over Head) to lower his body temp. Check if your kid have allergy with any medicine.
Cold : no medicine for cold. Give a little brandy at night diluted with water.
Cough : Give a tea spoonful of honey at night before sleep to kid.

Hope this is helpful :)

shweta : Aradhya's Saraswati Connection

shweta : Aradhya's Saraswati Connection: 13th Feb'2014, a day before the D Valentine's Day, considered a very auspicious day for pooja and yes we had to utilize this day fo...

Aradhya's Saraswati Connection

13th Feb'2014, a day before the D Valentine's Day, considered a very auspicious day for pooja and yes we had to utilize this day for a good cause without missing any time. Hence,we decided to perform my Little ones Saraswati  Pooja. Lucky sleeps till 11 AM in morning, but this day was important and the toughest task was to make him get ready for pooja early morning. So, someone I managed to play a good role and make him ready for pooja with him crying during bath session and convincing him to wear traditional kurta pajama. Someone I did a great job in minimum time I had and pooja started at 10:30 AM. My Father-in-law is well versed with Sanskrit and performed Pooja. Lucky was almost getting dozed off during pooja with laying over his Daddies lap every now and then. Pooja lasted for an hour and finally my little baby was relieved. He enjoyed it more as he had his favourite Book and pencil to accompany him. He worshipped Saraswati Ma and offered flowers and prashad. We made him write complete alphabets on his first book. And the Sarawati connection was so effective that while we went for walk in evening, he took his book and pencil along :) May Saraswali Ma shower her blessings on my little one and make him a good and sensible human being :) Some pics .............

I am a Women

 I am a Women: Thank you everyone for reading my first blog and the comments were too valuable which insisted me to keep writing :) I am a Women, Yes an...

I am a Women

Thank you everyone for reading my first blog and the comments were too valuable which insisted me to keep writing :)

I am a Women, Yes and I am too proud of it too. I have attitude, intelligence and beauty inherited from my MOM and my DAD. And yes, if that is not all, I have my own self esteem and self respect which I can never compromise with. All these words seem to be too loud and vague but they are TRUE. I am born and brought up with same or extra care as all boys are. But, why do you forget it when we enter your house leaving our nest after 25 yrs. You want kids or rather we want kids but more specifically your family wants a baby boy. We work as we have gained same qualification and sitting at home is not considered such a good option.We nurse kids and bring them up with all emotions and strong head but when anything goes wrong, we are the ones to be blamed. I ask, WHY ? You never had a role in his/her upbringing or was it only us who played this role, if yes, then you have no right blaming us. I personally feel, a women can never be wrong.She thinks from HEART. India has grown in various ways but the mentality on Boys and girls empowerment still remains a question to be answered. Today, when we hear of a RAPE, the first question arises, WHAT TIME, WHICH PLACE, CIRCUMSTANCES and after all the diggings and investigation, WHAT the hell was she doing there ? I ask, it is moral rights gained by guys to roam anywhere and anyhow and women to just sit at home and obey your rules.

Till today, I feel so sad on the DEC'16 2012 DELHI GANG RAPE case victim. I can't even dare to think of all she went through that very horrible night and days after the incident. May god rest her soul in peace. If something needs a change, it is our mentality on women. We, new generation must make it a point to em-bide all right values and right thinking in our Boys. It is not such a difficult task and it only evolves from childhood.

This blog is no Offense to all MEN, it is just a feeling of writer on today's Situation and for all MEN who think ALIKE.

PIZZA Resolution 2014

Another new year arrived and it's 2014 !!! I often wondered since childhood, why is so much hush hush on the new year eve. For me, it is like just another day of a new month on a new Calendar. And for all this new day, new month, and new year, we swore make new resolutions. And here is my Hubby's New Year Resolution for 2014.

Time was around 4:00 PM, 1st Jan'14, me and hubby enjoying evening cup of tea along with some snacks.

HUBBY (stuffing his mouth with handful of "All-in-One Haldiram"  Mixture) : I have decided my resolution for this year, ( Me wondering what is about to come from his mouth ;)), I am gonna reduce my weight and avoid all oily and fried FOOD items(very specific on Food). 

ME : Oh really (feeling strange as he is currently stuffing his mouth with the mixture which will increase 100 C right away). And what about the mixture you are eating now to reduce your weight (Quiet sarcastically).

HUBBY : Yeah, just for today. From tomorrow onwards, I have decided, I will not have anything oily and fried except Paranthas (which my MIL prepares with too high Calories, paranthas made of Ghee, dipped in Ghee and then a BIG Bowl of Home made Butter to make them more delicious) and PIZZA only from "PIZZA HUT" (very specific). 

I was so happy that he didn't decide to cut off on PIZZA as we both love PIZZA and going out for a ride, shopping or any work means PIZZA treat :)

MIL enters and I almost froze. Hubby's Mama and Mami arrives home and we decide to go for a walk to keep up the new resolution to be more effective.

The discussion left in middle about the pizza starting again and I teased him for his new resolution and he kept his wide smile prominent on  his face (I had always loved this). So, the discussion went further ....

Me : What if you have a party in office and they order DOMINO'S Pizza ? Will you have it or not ?
HUBBY (too confident) : I always order PIZZA HUT one.
Me : Oh really, what if majority wants to go with DOMINO's ?
HUBBY : Hahaha, you are such a disaster, what is there to think about, free mai hai to chaleyga ;)

And we both starting jogging on NH-7.....